"Serve husbands like first-class prostitutes"

A wife must obey and serve her husband like "a first-class prostitute" to keep him from straying and to prevent greater social ills, according to the Obedient Wives' Club (Malaysia). "There is a perception in our society today that a wife's duties include being a good cook, cleaner and mother, but there is less emphasis on sexual matters. We are here to change that perception." [Read more: 'Serve husbands like first-class prostitutes']

While I agree that the sexual relationship between a man and his wife is important, to expect a woman to serve her husband like a first-class prostitute is acceptable only if:

1. the man does not require his wife to cook, clean and take care of the children.
These activities take up a great amount of time and energy. First-class prostitutes do not bring their children along on their "jobs". It is impossible to try to do a "job" as a prostitute while pacifying a crying baby. You won't want the wrong pacifier inserted in the wrong mouth now, would you?

2. the man does not require his wife to work a normal day job to contribute to household income. Working takes up a significant amount of energy. First-class prostitutes do not need to have day jobs. They only work when the man has completed his work and is ready for some action. They have conserved their energy for showtime. The man must earn enough money to pay for all the household needs including having a maid (see point #1).

3. if a man expects to be serviced by his wife like he was service first-class prostitute, he should pay her top dollar. If the man can pay the fees, I believe he can get the service.

4. the man should buy gifts for the high-class prostitute to show appreciation. High-class prostitutes receive expensive gifts such as designer bags and jewellery. Such gifts are given not only on birthdays but also as surprises just to make them happy.

5. the man must be able to accept that his wife has slept with many men before and continues to sleep with other men. How can he expect her to know how to behave like a first-class prostitute if she never worked as one? Besides, when you engage prostitutes, you cannot expect that they are going to serve only you. They service you if you have the money. If you can't pay, they're gone.

Therefore, the statement that wives should serve husbands like first-class prostitutes is completely reasonable - if the above 5 criteria are met!

Remark: I know I'm talking all about money requirements here. But sex for money is what prostitution is all about!


peter said...

so you are saying a man should engage a prostitute if he can afford it to get really good sex on occasion and not expect it from his wife? even if he is willing to give her the same in return and does not want to stray? just asking.

Anonymous said...

Is that "Extreme Islam"?

Yu-Kym said...

Peter, no, that's not what I'm saying. I'm only addressing the statement that women should serve husbands like first-class prostitutes.

Anon, I don't think it's got to do with religion. Chinese men also want to be treated like kings.

Anonymous said...

If there are women with such stupig views, can you blame equally stupig but unscrupulous men from taking advantage and exploiting such women? What more men with immense power!


You are back to your witty writing. I like. keke

silli cat

~Pink Miu Miu~ said...

Come on, dun take that statement with twisted mind.

All along I thought and agreed a good wife shld be even better in bed (than anywhere) and it proven right :P this in mind even before this article was published, therefore i agree acts like licking the toe or a**, bj and even unsual acts occasionally. Sometimes i even pretend and ask my partner to 'pay' me to feel the shiokness..

i think ultimately, is really between the husband and wife and nothing wrong in wanting to treat the person you married like 'Kings' or 'Queens' pleassse!

David said...


The idea of a wife servicing her husband like a high end prostitute does appear to happen.

While very uncommon such relationships is the fodder of fiction and movies.

That being said, in a few societies, parts of Yemen, India and other parts of the world, young female children are entered into arranged or force marriages.

Most often with men 20 to 30 older.

Tragegy often results;
A 13-year-old Yemeni child bride who bled to death shortly after marriage was tied down and forced to have sex by her husband, according to interviews with the child's mother, police and medical reports.

The girl's mother, Nijma Ahmed, 50, told the Associated Press that before her daughter lost consciousness, she said that her husband had tied her up and forced himself on her. "She looked like she was butchered," she said about her daughter's injuries.

Elham Assi, 13, bled to death hours after she spoke to her mother and just days after she was married to a 23-year-old man. She died on April 2 in the deeply poor Yemeni village of Shueba, some 200 kilometers northwest of the capital. Her husband, Abed al-Hikmi, is in police custody.

Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/world/2010/04/10/dead-yemeni-child-bride-tied-raped-says-mom/#ixzz1OUVwRpsU

Consider the following -

1. Worldwide, an estimated 51 million girls younger than 18 are child brides.

2. The majority of child marriages occur in West and East Africa and South Asia.

3. Over the next decade, another 100 million girls will become child brides.

4. Child marriage endangers girls.
Child brides experience a higher incidence of domestic violence, marital abuse (including physical, sexual or psychological abuse) and abandonment.

5. Child marriage increases maternal mortality and infant mortality rates.

6. Many child brides are well below 15.
Although the median age of marriage for child brides is 15, some as young as 7 or 8 are forced into marriage.

7. Risk factors for young teen girls who give birth are greatly increased.
Girls who become pregnant under age 15 are five times more likely to die in childbirth than women who give birth in their 20s.
8. Sexual disparity in child marriages increases risk of AIDS.
Because many often marry older men with more sexual experience, child brides face a higher risk of contracting HIV.

9. Child marriage adversely impacts the education of girls
In some of the poorest countries, girls readied for early marriage do not attend school. Those that do are frequently forced to drop out after marriage.

10. The prevalence of child marriage is related to poverty levels.
Child brides are more likely to come from a poor family and once married, are more likely to continue living in poverty. In some countries, child marriages among the poorest fifth of the population occur at rates up to five times that of the richest fifth.

What is worse? An educated women servicing her husband, or child bride servicing her husband?


The unbelieving mind would not be convinced by any proof, and
the worshiping heart needs none.

-- A. W. Tozer

Yu-Kym said...

Pink Miu Miu, I agree that there's nothing wrong with wanting to treat husband/wife like king/queen. But it shouldn't be a "should".

David, both are sad but I think child bride forced to service her husband is worse because she does not have the freedom of choice.

David said...


Bravo to you and Pink Miu!

A husband and wife wanting to treat the other like royalty is the key!

That mutual desire to share in the relationship. Sharing the ups and downs, along with lifes little and great pleasures.

Forced or expectations of being serviced by ones spouse borders on being uncivilized.

Then again, isolated places on this planet people live along a tattered edge between civilized and ruthless.


Ying said...

please allow me to say : a Bunch of STUPID IDIOT BRAINLESS women ... as Malaysia i really shame on Them !!!


Anonymous said...

Only women with A-grade beauty can play the role of a high end prostitute to spice up their marriage. But this kinky role play of sub-servientship is played only up to a point determined by her!

Why should an A-grade beauty undertake such roles as a matter of routine as though its the man's right? In order to keep the marriage or sex going of all things? tsk tsk

An A-grade beauty determines her own conduct and actions that befits her sense of dignity and respect.

Role playing as a high end prostitute can only last as long as the fun is still there to enjoy. If the man dont appreciate that there are other ways to keep the marriage going, it's time to dump him. An A-Grade beauty deserves an A-grade Man not only in terms of his physical looks.

As for those less than A-Grade beauty, you cant really become a high end prostitute, can you? lol

silli cat

peter said...

i disagree with most of the comments because they miss the point of the article. if a man and a woman marry for love and respect and they continue to love and respect each other then i say they "should" treat each other as a high end prostitute. if a husband loves and respects his wife he will share the duties of child rearing and financial support of family as well as household duties. women stray from marriage also so we are not talking only about men here. surely people will be tempted at some point by what the see in the world and the only way to keep them from straying is to make sure what they have at home is better than what they would get else where. and you do not have to be beautiful outside to provide this. i can say from experience that a average woman can be more sexy than any "10" woman if she chooses to because true attraction and satisfaction is in actions and eyes. so if you give and receive love and respect in a relationship it should be in bedroom as well. people stray for one reason they are not getting something they desire at home. this is not to say that you should provide what they want just because they want it. the love and respect is key. all work and no play is never healthy. make a date and find time to be that hot sexy man or woman your mate needs as a distraction and they will not stray because you will be on their mind when temptation comes along.

Anonymous said...


Surely you are talking in jest.

How is one so sure that marrying for love and respect will not deteriorate through time and familiarity?

How can one ensure that the home stays more attractive than the outside world?

How long is one able to stave off boredom with the same old hot sexy woman?

Surely after a period of time nothing can fight a new temptation?

Are we human beings that strong and purrfect?

silli cat

David said...


Your POV is completly correct.

Many, if not most, failed marriages result from to little respect, unfullfilled expectations and little or no honor for the other.

The gamut of the married relationship, finances, health, work, shared tasks, romance, and sexual relations take both partners willing and active participation.

Temptation as you mention is always near.


Anonymous said...

be a wife first .. then we talk !!!

David said...


Can we presume you will be an honorable spouse and husband?

As many have pointed out. Marriage is the union of two people.

Neither with superior rights.

Differences - yes. Different stregnths and weaknesses, different skills.

Building the marriage relationship together builds that life long bond that encourages people to remain together through good times and bad times.


Anonymous said...

I am a Malaysian and i also cant accept their statement. These women are trying to equalise the wife status with a prostitute. nonsense! I dont need a 1st class prostitute wife. I only need a 1st class good wife and same to her need a 1st class good husband. Marriage is about tie up couple' special relationship that we can live together harmoniously and take good care of each other. It is not about sex. Even if we proceed with sex, we also need to ensure that both side has the will to do it and enjoy the process together. I am actually very shocked to read a news like that in our society.

Anonymous said...

Marriage is about commitment and love. Wife should not be a servitude to the husband and vice versa.
A married couple should treat each other equally and with respect for one another. Therefore first class prostitute in marriage ...the term is so very wrong.

ellie said...

A wife should serve her hubby sexually BETTER than first-class prostitutes!