A loose vagina is not why men prefer blowjobs

I've heard that some women take a man's request for a blowjob as in insult that their vaginas are "loose".

While that might sometimes be true, I think there is no need for women to take offence. Other than the psychological reasons for loving blowjobs, the 2 common physical reasons that men enjoy blowjobs are:
a) Blowjobs are usually done without condoms. This enables the man to feel the moistness and warmth of the mouth, tongue and throat;
b) There is dedicated, targeted contact and pressure of the tongue on the penis head which results in greater pleasure.

My friend is particularly turned on by women with tongue studs. He said tongue studs intensify the sensation during a blowjob. There are other ways of making a blowjob more interesting such as sucking on a mint giving a blowjob, putting a small rounded-edged ice cube in your mouth, putting a thumb into your mouth for double-tongue effect. These cannot be achieved through vaginal sex so, women, please don't blame your vagina.

Note: Sexually transmitted infections can be transmitted through blowjobs (both the giver and recipient are at risk).

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David said...


One can only admire your breadth of knowledge on topics such as sexual pleasure.



Zeal without knowledge is fire without light.

-- Thomas Fuller

Anonymous said...

"Note: Sexually transmitted infections can be transmitted through blowjobs (both the giver and recipient are at risk)."

really? what about kissing?

Yu-Kym said...

Infections can be transmitted through kissing too.

David said...


STDs pose the greatest danger. The incidence of such diseases is growing each year.

Young people are putting pleasure before health, and ignorance of STDs will follow many young men and women their entire life.

Condom's are not absolute protection, only complete knowledge of a partners sexual history and health will protect one.

Abstinence is only other option.


Though no one can go back and make a new beginning - anyone can start from now and make a brand new end.|

-- Carl Brand


rachel said...

STIs cannot be transmitted through kissing. There are only 4 ways that it can be transmitted (this is from Secondary 4 Biology, btw)

1) Mother-unborn child
2) Blood transfusions
3) Sexual contact (ie during sex.)
4) using needles of someone who has an STI/exchange of bodily fluids

well it's something like that. but definitely NOT through kissing - the amount is too infinitesimal to actually get the infection.

Jeryc said...

BJ? It has been millenia since I gotten one.. .Guess I should not put too much time in work... LOL

Yu-Kym said...

Rachel, I include one link here about Herpes:
My friend's friend got infected through kissing without other sexual contact.

Anonymous said...

STIs can be transmitted through kissing

Anonymous said...


This is a question for the webmaster/admin here at yu-kym.blogspot.com.

May I use part of the information from your blog post right above if I give a backlink back to this website?


Yu-Kym said...

Hi Thomas, yes, you may :)

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