Couples who watch porn together stay together?

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Do you watch porn with your partner?
As I mentioned before, most porn is catered for the male audience. But I think there is some educational value in watching porn, like getting new ideas and exploring likes and dislikes through the actions of other couples. If couples keep doing the same thing over and over again, I would think sex lives would be boring. Question is: how do people get started watching porn together?

Suppose I want to initiate it. Should I suggest that straight out that we watch porn together? Or should I ask my partner if he watches porn?

Would you tell your partner that you enjoy watching porn?
It would be strange if a guy has never watched porn in his life. However, I find it somewhat disturbing if my partner watches porn too often. It might be an addiction. If he has a favourite (female) porn star, or favourite (female) sexy model or actress I would rather that he keep that information to himself in the same way that he would prefer me not to share my thoughts about actors' manly endowments with him - unless he is greatly endowed himself.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

i guess it depend on what kind of person is watching, as some might find it offensive and pervert to watch while others just watch it with a opening mind.

Many professional counselors agree that pornography is never meant for education nor should anyone imitate any acts from it.

Pornography is purely fantasy and one may say that it's an entertainment - like any other movie, only with some spice.

Like any movie, acts of sex in pornography will never take place naturally in real world.

However, some couples openly admit that soft core pornography did add in some flair into their sex life.

On the other hand, you can almost always track sex perverts and sex offenders to the addiction of hard core pornography.

Thus, some liken it a cigarette - it provides some excitement, but in long run, it can do harm, although not to everyone every time.

Rock Hard said...

Porn is for horny individual.

If couple watch porn together, each will have their own version of fantasy, and may not achieve full satisfaction the next time the couple have sex without porn.

My personal point of view..

Yu-Kym said...

Professor, I agree that alot of porn is fake. E.g. squirting in porn is usually fake http://yu-kym.blogspot.com/2010/01/fake-female-ejaculationsquirting.html
People also get "ideas" and might end up hurting other people.

Rock Hard, some people might even find themselves unable to appreciate normal sex anymore. Just like those who frequently go for "special" massage.