Why do some women dislike giving oral sex?

Some possible reasons:
1. They think it's unhygienic.
2. They dislike the smell.
3. They dislike how the penis looks. Some people think sex organs look ugly.
4. They dislike the taste of semen.
5. They are allergic to semen. This is rare but possible.
6. They prefer the pubic hair shaved or unshaven.
7. They are afraid of choking or suffocating. Not all guys are gentle and sensitive.
8. They are afraid of accidentally biting it off. There was one such case in Singapore - a woman was giving a man a blowjob in a car when a lorry hit the car and the woman bit off the man's penis. Ouch! Love bites!
9. Oral sex is abnormal sex as defined by certain religions. Doing it makes them feel guilty.
10. Oral sex is illegal in Singapore.
11. They think it is demeaning and dirty. Some people are turned on by filth and domination/submission, others are turned off.
12. They think it is egocentric and selfish so they do not want to encourage such behaviour.
13. They are selfish. Just because they don't like receiving oral sex, they think you don't deserve to receive it.
14. They don't like receiving oral sex means. They don't do it to men so that hopefully they don't get pressured into receiving oral sex.
15. They don't know how to do it so they simply say that they don't like doing it.

Related posts:
[Why do some women dislike receiving oral sex?]
[6 Reasons why I love receiving oral sex]
[6 Reasons why I enjoy giving oral sex]


~Pink Miu Miu~ said...

Oral sex should be legalised esp couples who abstain from sex due to religion reasons or own convictions.

And no, oral sex is not demeaning or dirty. It's an act of intimacy betwn u and your partner (unless u sleep around) but if do it right with the one U love, it's actually very satisfying.

Jeryc said...

You forgot to specifically mention the cheese....

Yu-Kym said...

Pink Miu Miu, I agree that oral sex should be legalised for certain situations but I think it has been left the way it is to protect victims of forced oral sex or protect the public in cases where couples have public oral sex. I'm sure many legal practitioners have oral sex too!

Jeryc, oh yes the cheese. Was trying hard to block out that part of my memory...

~Pink Miu Miu~ said...

haha many legal practitioners have oral sex too.. true true :)

Anonymous said...

hmm, haven't you posted this before? i rmb reading it.

Yu-Kym said...

No. I posted:
[Why do some women dislike receiving oral sex?]
[6 Reasons why I love receiving oral sex]
[6 Reasons why I enjoy giving oral sex]

Anonymous said...

oh, the titles are similar. no wonder i got them mixed up.

Yu-Kym said...

I'll give you some credit for having a vaguely good memory :)

Anonymous said...

I love giving oral sex, but not so much on receiving. Men has a different perceptions to going under especially having the behavior of it will bring them bad luck!

Yu-Kym said...

Bad luck?? That's new! But not surprising considering the widespread use of vulgarities which involve the vagina.

C. Ialis said...

I hate giving oral sex. I never have done it till now. It seems to be very ugly and annoying.

Yu-Kym said...

C. Ialis, if you've never tried it before, how do you know you won't like it? Perhaps when you see your partner's reaction you might think it's worth the effort?

Anonymous said...

Other than religion, culture, pain that cannot be overcome, mental block, etc that one must respect and understand that some do suffer such unfortunate circumstances, the only other reason why i can reasonably offer why some ppl dont like giving oral sex is the critical aspect of hygiene and smell. Any other reasons for not enjoying it I cannot fathom why.

One cannot be too hygienic enough when it comes to sex. A thorough bath is necessary to rid of body odour and the likes.

Its very critical to rid off smell and other disgusting "things" COMPLETELY in or around the vagina or penis.

If not, it's a sure way to turn me off, even if its a slight bit. I am an extremely visual and smell sensitive person in these aspects of sex.

If these can be resolved, giving and receiving oral sex is one of the most sensuously pleasing aspect of making luv. Thats why some ppl take an hour or more to make complete love. Foreplay, actual play and post play.

I cannot imagine not enjoying oral sex as just one form of receiving sexual ecstasy 9 out of 10 times making love.

curious cat