My 3 levels of orgasm intensities

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I experience 3 levels of orgasm intensities:
- the "Ok" type (OKO),
- the "Oh, yes!" type (OYO), and
- the "OMG!" type (OMGO).

I can have the OKO kind of orgasm without making a sound. The pressure builds up, I tense up and clench my PC muscles and I breathe less deeply till I feel like I'm getting to a place where there's only one way in. When I cum, it's like reaching a "high" point, then my entire body relaxes. It feels good and calming after that. Such orgasms don't last very long - a few seconds.

The OYO is what I usually get. It's hard to stay quiet. The pressure is intense, my PC muscles are clenched tightly, I'm controlling my breathing - I take infrequent and shallow breaths - till I feel the OYO coming. I then either hold my breath till I reach orgasm or breathe into the orgasm - these two feel slightly different. When I reach orgasm, my body involuntarily jerks and pulsates for at least 10 seconds. This type of orgasm is addictive. I usually go for serial multiple orgasms with this type - since I'm already there, I might as well go for seconds, and thirds, and... The reason why I use the word "go for" is because wanting to get an orgasm is a conscious effort. I feel exhausted after the OYO. But I can usually go for another round of serial multiple orgasms after a few minutes' rest.

The last type - the OMGO - is the type I wish I could have all the time. This is earth-shattering and mind-blowing! It feels like I'm being brought to the edge of the universe and I might burst into a million bits. In that split second when I can feel that I'm cumming, I'm usually in two minds about whether to stop or continue - it's like, I want to feel that high but I'm afraid to get blown out of the universe! I always have to grab something (so that I don't get blown away). The feeling is out of this world! The result of this is often squirting, also known as female ejaculation. I won't say it feels like I want to pee though (if it felt the same I might as well just drink lots of water and not go to the toilet!) I can't help but scream out loud when I get the OMGO. I've tried controlling myself not to squirt and I end up with cramps in my legs. One OMGO per session is enough to completely satisfy me. Besides, the whole place is wet! Achieving the OMGO has got nothing to do with how long the foreplay was or whether I used the start-stop method, i.e. stimulation till he reaches close to orgasm, then stopping, and repeating. It's got to do with skill and level of mental arousal.

So far, I only had 1 partner who was able to make me get the OMGO each and every time he performed oral sex on me. Too bad, he's married now (I don't do married men). If I find a guy who can do that to me now, I'm keeping him! And it doesn't matter if he's got a micropenis :)

Related posts:
[Fake female ejaculation/squirting]
[What does an orgasm feel like?]
[Quiet and noisy orgasms]
[One-minute-man vs micropenis]
[Does size matter? - Part 1]

46 comments:

Liang - will be called 【L】 from now on said...

interesting enough to see how's the feeling of orgasm or what signs to look for in girls ><, btw if my partner starts grabbing and clawing my back and cant stop making sounds, does that mean she's getting the OMGO

Anonymous said...

like the way u comment it...hope I can give u an OMGO to reward u for ur frank talk.
I love u....u r cute....

Banshee said...

Oh, great! It´s always interesting when you can find a conscient women who can track down her emotions to understand her ways to orgasm.

As an stimulator, I could suppose I normally cause OKO regularly.

However, I might admit I have troubles sometimes in understanding when I caused OYO and OMGO. Basically when it happens during intercourse.

If you consider "squirting" as an important characteristic, I am quite aware that I occasionally cause it by oral sex. Further, after several kinds of stimulation, I think I can cause OMGO mostly every time I perform a specific kind of handjob.

However, I think that it's kinda tricky to understand OYO that are close to OMGO. Or OKO that are close to OYO. Actually, I think it's quite intresting topic to explore when you are on the verge between one orgasm and the other... and in the end you, sometimes, have none.

I will think over on my specific kinds of orgasm and might come back here...

painter said...

nice to know about orgasm...my GF always will get the OYO...i try to make her achieve the OMGO..now after reading the stop and go..maybe i will try on her and see if she can squirt..

Anonymous said...

I like your postings and started following them recently about a month ago.
Am always thrilled to know if I could make a girl OMGO and my partner gets that occasionally if the session lasts long enough. Also depends on whether she is up to it or not.

Anonymous said...

Do you get your OMGO and squirting through G-spot stimulation ? is that the only way to get squirting ?

imthekingg said...

like what kym said, to achieve that OMGO stage usually is through oral sex, is quite hard to have that OMGO feeling during sex but it is still possible if you are able to hit that G spot and depending on the girl too

Anonymous said...

i m wet now can some one help me

Yu-Kym said...

Liang, different women experience orgasms differently and behave differently. So I don't know which type of orgasm your gf is having - only she can tell you.

Banshee, I can't tell whether I'm going to have an OMGO or OYO until I get it. I can lose the O altogether if I'm distracted or if I breathe in too early.

Anon, you mentioned "my partner gets (OMGO) occasionally if the session lasts long enough. Also depends on whether she is up to it or not". I got to agree with you that it really depends on the woman as much as the man. Many men think that the OMGO is caused by their skills only.

The ability to squirt depends on the woman. Which kind of arousal technique (clitoral or vaginal) a woman enjoys the most depends on her physiological makeup. Therefore, clitoral stimulation can cause squirting.

Garrett said...

You squirt...? You're my Goddess...! I've only had 1 lover who squirts, and till today, she's the best I've ever had!

Anonymous said...

I think i have a squirt last night after 2 years of love making experience with my bf. i m not saying he is not good in the past but i think i have one of the best last night. The liquid that flow out is thicker than a pee and is as slippery as a lubricant and i felt i have reached the maximum safisfaction and excitement. I have wet my bf's bed. :)

However, i m still not sure where the fluid come from as my bf was penetrating me when i squirt. I can only feel fluid flowing out from my private part.

Anthony said...

For a woman to achieve OMGO strictly depends on what the lady wants and how the lady responses. Some achieve OMGO by orals, others by bonk itself while some a combination of both.

OMGO is pleasurable for both. I was lucky to have experience with one for 3 days 2 nights at a hotel. Was my 1st experience with one. She squirted small and big 40 times during those 3 days.

But it made a mess out of the room. The room boy need to change the bed comforter and sheet as well as change one chair because it is too wet.

And squirts come out from urethra. So for lady saying that they squirt from their pussy hole, that is just not squirt.

Jaden Diaz said...

do all girls love receiving oral ?
my current partner does not apparently, she said that it feels weird...

I love to give a lot of orals to my ex and she seems to enjoy it...not sure if it's OYO or OMGO...but basically when I'm below, at the point of O, she pulls my hair and pushes my head against her crotch...I just took it that she was asking for another one and continued until she reached the 2nd O...which by that time, she normally collapsed and rolled over from me...

I do everything the same with the current one, does it mean that she is just one of those that do not like to receive oral ?

btw, I normally swallow whatever liquid that is coming out from there, do girls like it ? is it safe ?

Anonymous said...

i like to watch my bf licking and sucking my private part. I also like to pull his hair and push his head toward my private part when he give me oral. it's really a good foreplay before proceed to penis penetration.

Yu-Kym said...

Garrett, ya I can but not always. OMGO isn't that easy for me to achieve.

Anonymous, the liquid for squirting is actually clear like water, and it comes out from the urinary tract. There may be a slight smell of urine because it's from the same tract.

Jaden Diaz, not all gals like receiving oral sex, unlike Anonymous (in comments below yours) and me. Probably they don't like it cos of psychological or religious reasons. Exchange of fluids is never 100% safe :)

adelene said...

yu-kym im very wet now what should i do ...i need a orgasm..

Anonymous said...

BTW, do sex toys help u better !!! you should write about them too...

guy said...

i enjoy reading your post and explain differen stage. my ex-GF and partner had experience OMGO and shout, but not everytime.

Justin said...

Hey adelene, I can make you squirt with my playful tounge and humongous cock if you let me

Anonymous said...

It may be humongous to you, but by Yu Kym's standard, it may be just micro. Is it 4 x 2 or 1.5 x 1.5?

Anonymous said...

yu kym seem an expert in sex

Yu-Kym said...

"expert" is relative...

Anonymous said...

You make me horny after reading ur post. Btw , im just 15. Care to strip tease for me??

Yu-Kym said...

You are underage!

Anonymous said...

So? My dick size is as big as an adult!

Yu-Kym said...

I'm not going to risk getting charged in court just to get a dick!

Anonymous said...

I'm way past 18, may I???

Anonymous said...

Hi, Really intresting blog site. Kudos to that.

I really love to perform oral sex with my gf and the first 2 times was fine. the 3rd time, few days after her mences, her vagina had a very wierd smell which almost made me gag. She was deeply affected by it.

The first 2 times just a different odour(wouldnt consider it smell). the 3rd time was just way off. A stinging odour which really put me off, but i was willing to go down on her again to try, but she declined.

What i want to know is, does a vagina really smell wierd? or is my gf suffering from BV?

Yu-Kym said...

Anon "I'm way past 18, may I???" way past is how old?? 50?

Anon, I would advise her to see a doctor. Better to be safe.
http://yu-kym.blogspot.com/2010/01/if-you-smell-funny-down-there-go-see.html

Anonymous said...

yes, is 50+. how you know???

Yu-Kym said...

Overaged :p

Darren said...

Hi Kym. Happen to stumble upon your blog. Nice and interestingly hot topics u have, nonetheless informative (abt yourself as well). Lol.

Interesting to know u've only had one OMGO. Must take a really good guy to make u achieve that.

Anyway cheers girl! Keep up the spicy stuffs.

Yu-Kym said...

Hi Darren, welcome to my blog :) I've had OMGO more than once but only 1 guy had managed to help me achieve that. I've done it on my own too :p

Darren said...

Aww you such a lovely warm person to welcome me here =) I feel loved. Lol

I think my OMGO is 3 times of the O. I knw cant be compared to girls/women orgasm as both men and women are made different. But 3 times O in one session to me is pretty........ *phew*..........tiring. =P

Yu-Kym said...

Are you referring to multiple orgasms? http://yu-kym.blogspot.com/2009/07/multiple-orgasms-in-women.html

Anonymous said...

"my body involuntarily jerks and pulsates"

That's what I normally had!! Then there goes second , third and on and on... And yes! It's addictive!! I would want more and he would happily give me more. He was like "Yeah, you don't have to tell me, I know you were almost there.. and I know when you are there.."

I've been wanting to know more about how squirters feel when they're about to squirt/squirting. I wondered what I had is really squirting. It felt slightly like I'm gonna pee but it's not cos if i tried to release a bit, the almost-pee-feeling will be gone (during some experiments with myself :P). Then as if there's something 'pushing' from within (along with some really strong jerks + I MUST grab on my partner/anything this time) , and things got so intense that I couldn't hold on my pc muscle anymore... then there goes the liquid... but the liquid won't be much, from a teaspoon to few.

-bell

zane said...

Gotta agree that fingering and giving oral lets you get the OMGO. I just love to see my partner's reaction when they got the OMGO. PRICELESS. :D

Anonymous said...

Hi kym i find you very sexy can i be your sex buddy??

Anonymous said...

every woman is different, it does not work on every woman.

Anonymous said...

hey i am 18 turning 19 this year, care to let me try satisfying you?

John said...

Im John. Basically, I have a technique which enables a woman to reach the highest level intensity, as described by you as OMGO. I learned this by studying the female organ by itself and how it works.
And I basically know the technique which will work on all women as there are a few basic pressure points.

Yu-kym if you are interested to know more about it, let me know. I can explain as it involves using on the hands and nothing else.

John said...

my system keep hanging when I post, need to get a new pc. Anyway, Im not sure if this was successfully posted earlier, What I wanted to say is that I have studied the female organ and how it works. The primordial pressure points can and will give rise to an intense orgasm and squirt as I have tried and to the extent came up with a technique that will allow women to experience this all or if not most of the time.

Yukym if you are interested to know more let me know, as I have the technique. It involves using only the hands strategically.

Anonymous said...

there is technique? my partner said not all can reach, and that I numb.

Anonymous said...

Hi John, I may be just 18, but what you said sounds too fake.

I think every woman is different and there is no one method to achieve an orgasm. I would like to say prove it but I'm a guy. To me it is just not believable.

John said...

To Anony 1, thats not true, I believe you are not numb. There is always a way.

To Anony2, I do not know how to prove to you since you already stated you are a guy. If you are a female then.....
I'm sorry to say this, you are contradicting your statements.

Unless you are a female, else I cannot state anything further to you.

John said...

Yu Kym help me out here, I believe you understand my point and methodology right?