I only have sex with my boyfriend

"I only have sex with my boyfriend," is what many gals like to say, according to my guy friends.

I can think of a few reasons why gals would say that:

1. That's supposed to make a gal seem more "decent".
Only sluts sleep with guys who are not their boyfriends. But the gal could have had dozens of boyfriends, which is not uncommon, and slept with all of them! While a gal who slept with guys who weren't her boyfriends could have only had 2 or 3 partners. [How many people have you slept with?]

2. Those gals are offering sex for love. [Sexual Bribery]
If the guy wants sex he'll just have to become a boyfriend first! Some guys will just be boyfriends in name so that they have the green light to have sex. As William Shakespeare wrote in Romeo and Juliet, "a rose by any other name would smell as sweet". Similarly, a FB by any other name is still a FB.

3. It's a polite way of turning down horny guys.
How many polite ways are there to turn down sexual advances from guys without hurting their ego? This is one of the "It's not you; it's me" ways - making the guy think that the problem does not with lie with the guy but lies with the gal who simply can't accept the idea of a FB relationship, fling or ONS. [One Night Stands]

[Withholding Sex]
[Sex clouds your judgment]


jen said...

So true.

~Pink Miu Miu~ said...

yes yes, how true :P

Anonymous said...

I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend yet but happy to help him masturbate, is it normal? Any tips how to give a good masturbation?

Anthony said...

It is perfectly normal. General tips:

1. Make your partner relaxed with comfortable environment
2. Lots of foreplay before and during masturbation
3. Check your tempo :P
4. Could use your thumbs or other fingers to rub the head and/frenulum lightly. Make sure he is already well lubricated or it can cause some discomfort

Value added to the above:

1. Complement it with orals if you are comfortable with it
2. Dont forget the man's balls.

You can also try this:

While giving him orals, caress his balls with one hand and use the hand's index or middle finger to stimulate the skin around the A hole or if he is comfortable, you can even insert your finger in and play around in his ass. :)

Hope this is useful.