One Night Stands

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I'm sure it's not just the men who enjoy one night stands (ONS) but women enjoy it too. However, women in Singapore are less likely to brag about having ONS. I think we are influenced by culture and religion. There's a perception that women who sleep around have "loose morals"and don't deserve to marry the "good guys".

Why do people enjoy one night stands?

1. It is always fun to play with something new
Try giving a child a new toy. The child would abandon his old toys to explore the new one. He might eventually decide that the old toys are more fun - but not before trying out the new one.

2. Sex is emotional
As much as we may try to deny it, sex is emotional. Suppose you are angry with your partner, you are quite unlikely to feel sexually turned on by your partner, right (unless you have rapist tendencies)? Think about why "sex stops after marriage". Couples who live together accumulate emotional barriers day by day and those barriers affect their sex life. With a stranger, you don't have such emotional barriers because you don't care what they did in the past or what they're going to do in the future.

3. You only have one shot
If you knew you only have one shot, wouldn't you give it your best and enjoy it to the fullest? :)

Have I ever had a ONS? Well, yes of course! But that's only because the first time wasn't good so I wasn't willing to grant a second!

25 comments:

Anonymous said...

god, i'd do anything to have a ONS with you. anything!

Anonymous said...

Yes I totally agree with you on the trying out of new thing feeling. Human are such curious speices..anything new will be very intriguing to us.

Anonymous said...

see la talk sex only u get more comments. makes u feel like a penny isnt it?

Yu-Kym said...

The phrase "a penny for your thoughts"... I won't mind if every person who reads this gives me a penny!

lol.. just her sharing & thought, no need to scold her right?

Nvr have the opportunity to ONS also.. TT

Anonymous said...

i had once have a ONS with a frens when i was half drunk, quite excited when we having it but things turned worst when he forced me to swallowed his sperm. Now, i would say "No" to ONS...

Yu-Kym said...

I'm sorry to hear about your experience. What an ass!

Anonymous said...

I go for ONS all the time, no commitment, no bonding. So far so good, too bad for the previous Anonymous who was forced to swallow sperm, I would have thought, you can withdraw and just leave if you do not enjoy. My worst one was with a African as he had a long one - maybe 7-9" and hard. I wasn't sure at first as I never had that long, u know-lah Singaporeans normally 4-6" only. Anyway, I did it, it was quite painful but an experience of a life time. That guy could last 2-3min after that we never met again.

Jessie

Yu-Kym said...

It's not normal for a guy to force - usually they are quite scared to hurt or cause unwanted pain, e.g. be extra gentle initially.
The African guy could only last 2-3min?? cmi... (cannot make it)

Anonymous said...

haha! 2-3min really cannot make it. Maybe he was in a hurry!:P i can make it to an hour or more. However, if the penis has been played for long hour, it will end up with painful skin and tired penis even if the gal is wet all the time.

Anthony Ling said...

oh... Normally how to get a successful ONS from a girl? I am excited to have one also. Yu-Kym, would you mind to have one with me?

Yu-Kym said...

Ya, 2-3min is a one-minute-man (1MM). I rather have a micropenis den a 1MM. (see
http://yu-kym.blogspot.com/2009/06/one-minute-man-vs-micropenis.html)

Yu-Kym said...

Anthony, you can try these tricks:
http://yu-kym.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-guys-talk-their-way-into-gals-pants.html

but they obviously won't work on me :)

Anonymous said...

some girls have a different definition of ONS. They expect ONS to turn into some lifetime committment.

Some sort of sex bribery?

I have a few ONS experience before. Only 1 to 2 girls know and understand the "rules" of ONS. The rest expects emotional follow-up. Bye bye to them.

ONS is fun but don't do it often, else no fun.

Yu-Kym said...

Yes, sexual bribery is 1 reason.
Or it could be that it wasn't clear to them as it was to you that it would just be only a ONS.
Perhaps it's cos you are so good they want to keep you? :)

Anonymous said...

After i were dump by ex, i used to have a sex partner for 2 years until i get to know my current bf.

Yu-Kym said...

thanks for sharing. i've no judgment about such stuff.

David said...

Yu-Kym,

From experienced shared by others I have been told that after many ONS that night becomes an increasingly empty experiences.

Sexual satisfaction just for the sake of such satisfaction without an emotional connection with the partner one person told me is like being on a deserted island with no chance of being rescued and having a suitcase full of millions of dollars. Totally useless and devoid of meaning.

David

Anonymous said...

Yup, ONS is the real deal. I continue seeing a couple of my ex-partners for dinner, movies or dance flooring because we've became good friends.

Yu-Kym said...

"Good friends". Ha! :D

Anonymous said...

Hi all,

I would say that ONS is kindda a "adventurous: experience, sometimes it could be sweet,and sometimes could be scary...

A female collegue of mine, from HK...who experienced an adventurous ONS when with a korean guy..she followed that guy home..
but, ended up with another 3 of his male friend who stay in the same house...

she was repeatedly bonked by those guys...and ended up with about 12shoots before they set her go.....

from her experience, she find that it is "scary" at the begining, but hot + adventurous....bcoz, she had multiple orgasms....

some, becareful....gals !!!

Anonymous said...

What can i add about ONS? hmmmmm...perhaps just this!

Like motorcycling at speed with wind in your hair, ONS can sometimes be very exhilirating!

But like motorcyling which can cost u your limb or life one unfortunate day, ONS (especially during these day and age of promiscuous, reckless and indiscriminate sex) can and will land you in trouble, diseases and regret for the rest of your lives.

I have escaped all such misfortunes in days long gone by. But never again will i tempt fate with hi-speed motorcycle racing and ONS and destroy whatever i have now.

I cant blame anyone for tempting danger and risk for we all go through certain stages in our lives. So beware all you out there...you might not be as lucky as me!

curious cat

Yu-Kym said...

Indeed. We should be careful. The thrill can kill:
http://yu-kym.blogspot.com/2010/04/hold-me-thrill-me-kiss-me-kill-me.html

9136goh0350 said...

Let have a great session ONS.. call me

LOSER said...

wow..i even never have a such exp..u all really have a lot of exp on this..