Curved penis: blessing or curse?

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When I mentioned in my previous post, Penile Curvature, that curved penises are rare and high in demand it sounded like a blessing to have one. However, it is in fact a bit of a curse. Here's why:

1. Just like not all women like long and thick penises, not all women like curved ones. Curved ones may cause some discomfort to some women so it all depends on your partner(s) *wink*

2. There are certain sex positions which won't work very well. My friend who claims to have the very rare downward curving penis asked me to suggest some positions for him because he has problems with the typical positions. I came up with a sizable list at that time but I can't remember what I put on the list. I figured there are not many of you out there who would need the list so I'm not going to spend time writing it. I don't have much use for the list myself at the moment. If I do have the good fortune of hooking up (or down) with a guy with a curved penis, I'll research and write out a list of positions and share them with you.

Will I try out my friend's cock for the sake of research? I admit that I am intrigued by the rarity of it. Maybe I'll do it if someone is paying me big bucks for my writing!

If you enjoyed this post, you enjoy reading my book: Penis Matters, Orgasms and Oral Sex.

75 comments:

Anonymous said...

mine is curved downwards too. its not tat rare la!

Yu-Kym said...

that's what the statistics say. my personal sample size isn't large enough!

Anonymous said...

If your curious I would suggest give it a try..

piney said...

ahaha... seems like alot of ppl in the same department as me lol...

Anonymous said...

Mines curve down too, and i saw a lot of guys in porn (iam not gay) whith same curve, i don't thing it's that rare :D

Yu-Kym said...

u saw it erect and u r not gay? hmmm. u r a doctor? i haven't had the fortune or misfortune to see one in real life

Anonymous said...

mine also down

Anonymous said...

hi..mine is curved-down too....my penis is normal angle from my body, is that call 90deg???since im scondary school,i tot mine is abnormal..but now is feeling better...but never see guy in porn have same curve like me..it make me bother...

Yu-Kym said...

I'm not the only gal who hasn't personally seen one that is curved down. One of my guy friends sent me an urgent msg asking me whether his downward curved penis is abnormal cos a gal (whom he thought was experienced) saw it and told him that she had never seen one that is curved down.

Anonymous said...

Curved or not does NOT A MATTER wor........erection counts. Straight it goes Once it is inserted into the vagina. kekeke !


Pak

Anonymous said...

What so special, i am curve too
My girl like it very much
AK

Anonymous said...

Hi Yu Kym
I suggest you shall try it as my girl told me that it is special and more enjoyable
AK

Anonymous said...

curve really is an blessing stuff for gal??? how about you guys angle when erect?
I have post a comment above which mentioned that I have normal angle from my body but forgot put name.

CS

Anonymous said...

Guys.....curve or straight is not an issue. What's important is that you got one!
What's even more important is....it can erect!!! ---- Nicholas C

Yu-Kym said...

Pak, I don't think it will become straight when it's in the vagina if it's hard.
CS, I think if it points higher (when you are standing) it looks "stronger"
Nicholas, of course lah. If not erect can't forget it haha

Anonymous said...

Hi yu-kym. Thanks for posting this useful article.
Im 22 years old and i have no sex experienced before.
I have a few question regarding the curved penis and i hope u could answerd it.

(1) I have an upward curving penis and i'm worried whether my degree of curved is normal or not,because i have never seen someone who has the same or greater degree of curved than me(even from porn) and i heard that
the guys with curved penis will have difficulties in inserting the penis into vagina.
If u don't mind, can i send my penis picture to ur mail so u can have a view of how curved is it??(Apologised if u feel offended and is ok if u not feel like to see).

(2) As i know, the guys who have the curved penis are not suitable to have a '' female up and male down'' ( sorry i dont know the exact term but i think u could understand)position during the sex, because it will have the risk of breaking the penis.so that means i can never use this position?

Thanks for ur time
have a nice day!

regards,
Jamson

Yu-Kym said...

Hi Jamson, you can do a search on the Internet for penis pictures and compare yours to those. It's true that you may have some difficulty with insertion and may not be able to use certain sex positions. However, the vagina is not necessarily 100% straight either so you may be able to find a partner who is a good "match" with you. The woman on top position is still possible - it depends on your partner - some women don't like the angle, some do. I don't think you can break your penis from sex.

Liang said...

Kym, as contrary to what you might think, you can actually break your penis from sex even though if its not curved.. and i think some guys are just trying to hard to get you in bed with them LOL

BTW, back to penis breaking its possible and happened quite often and usually in the position where the girl is on top...there are symptoms to note if you've broken your penis, and here's 2....

1. You hear a 'Pop' sound
2. Followed by very loud scream....

then u know you broke your penis....

Yu-Kym said...

Liang, you are right about breaking penis. Very dramatic explanation!

Anonymous said...

My penis curves up about 40 degrees. the best position is woman on top as she can control how to ride it. It is also great for 69 as it follows the curve of the throat. And of course if makes a great place for her to hang her towle when she gets out of the shower, seriously we make a natural hook.

Yu-Kym said...

It's useful to have a walking hook. Provided it is still hard after the shower.

Anonymous said...

Mine curves to the left. Works very well when the woman is on her right side, and the curve is pointing towards the g-spot.

Not a curse, definitely a blessing.

Anonymous said...

HI i am new to this curved penis deal....
however I have had a bit of experience in oral and vaginal sex. The partner i am with now is extremely curved to his left... I feel awkward pleasing him orally because i dont really know how to "work" it..? Also i am concerned that he might be experiencing pain when i am on top of him and is reluctant to say anything because of how into it i am. Any suggestions? Please say you have a couple

Yu-Kym said...

I can't generalise when it comes to pleasing a person. Different people like different things. The only way is to communicate and observe his expression, movements and sounds. From what I gather guys are usually very grateful to have you go down on them (because not all gals are willing to do that) and a partner to have sex with. If they are not grateful, then they don't deserve you. Don't feel stressed but just enjoy it. It turns them on just to see you enjoy yourself.

caleb said...

Hi. My penis when soft hangs at about 5 in but from the very start it curves left to the point I can pee standing sideways. When I become hard its a good 8.5 in but hooks hard left and I am nervous to show a girl.

caleb said...

Hi. My penis when soft hangs at about 5 in but curves left from the beggining. I can pee standing sideways. When hard its right under 9 in but hooks hard to the left like an L. I have not showed a girl yet. What should I expect?

Yu-Kym said...

caleb, it really depends on the woman. Can't expect all of them to react in the same way! Some like it big, some like it small; some like it curved, some like it straight.

snooepiggy said...

I stumbled across this post looking for a wider varitey of positions for me and my boyfriend. He has a downward curve to his penis and I was looking to see what would be most comfortable for him. The only positions we had a hard time with were proning and spooning. Missionary was a little tricky but if i lift my back up so he can slide in it works.

To be honest, I LOVE his shape. To me it feels amazing the way it pushes in. The best positions from my experience are doggie style and when hes on top and I put my legs over his shoulders. Cowgirl is his favorite of course that again is a little tricky just to get him in, but once he is its good from there on.

So if you are nervous about pleasing your girl, and dont want to stumble with getting it inside her at first, I suggest starting off with doggy-style or have her put her legs over your shoulders. "easy access" for men off all shapes. And if you are still having trouble, most girls have no problem helping her man get it at the right position, in fact its easier if she does it!

Hope this helps. =]

Rob said...

Hi all!

I've got a curved down penis (see picture below).
Do you think there might be any problems with it, or do you have any experiences?
Would sex in face to face positions (missionary, etc.) work without much problems?

http://img192.imageshack.us/img192/3470/16880487.jpg

Regards,
Bert

Anonymous said...

i have a curved penis and my girl loves it
never had any complaints from any of my past relationships

Rob said...

is your curve also down?

Mr. Green said...

Thats really a curved down penis......ROB

Rob said...

Rob - bert
Robert - u know

Anonymous said...

Nice article! My cock is club-like and curved downward, I guess I am one of lucky ones! Though I have to admit I was looking for curved cock opinions when I found this, so maybe I am cherry picking positive evidence. As to why women might like them, I noticed no one on this post or the other noted that it is easier to suck us deeply.

Anonymous said...

Mine is curved upwards and when I have anal sex with other men they enjoy a lot because they say my glans touches and rubs their prostate and is a terrific feeling. I think in those cases is a plus!

Anonymous said...

My penis is also curve. All the girls I had fuck said my penis is very lumak.[delicious in Malay]

Anonymous said...

Hello, I am new to your blog but a search does not reveal any mentions of circumcised vs uncircumcised penises preference from a woman's point of view. It may make for a good topic. On a similar topic, some SG women get a partial circumcision during childhood due to religion. I am curious if they have any trouble orgasaming and if they have the desire to masturbate as much as uncircumcised women. Finally, going the opposite direction, are there any female readers who worry that their clits are too large? Many men like extra large ones but some women feel they are problematic.

Thanks,

Anon

Anonymous said...

I am totally intrigued by your blog. Obviously the subjects on sex and relationships are particularly interesting. I wonder how much of what u write is of your own personal experiences and how much your research?

For eg sex as an overall subject heading (coz there are many sub topics on it) - what's the percentage where its of your own personal experiences?

And on relationships - same again, what percentage of your inputs comes from your own involvement with a man!

curious cat

Anonymous said...

It's very likely you're too bz to reply to all the mails u receive. But if u can find a little time to respond to the two questions in my recent mail to you.. that would be great! I just hope u find it worth your while enough to reply. If not it's ok, I'm cool. But I do find u very intruguing still. ta

curious cat

Ironman said...

i have a downward curved penis too. I worry is gonna be a problem.

I also have another problem, when my foreskin is pull back totally, it tightens my penis head, which i will lose the optimum feeling when having sex...

Should i see a doctor?

Anonymous said...

Hello, I found this site looking for sexual positions that won't hurt me, due to my husbands penile curvature. It curves downward, and I do find sex to be painful. It's tearing our marriage apart! I never want to do it, because it's painful! I would love to see this list you mentioned to complement that sort of shape!
Please help! And thanks!

Anonymous said...

For penis that slant to the left that means you are a right hander who masturbates frequently with your right hand and vice versa. those that curve upwards ... you have been wearing tight briefs since young and have positioned your penis pointing upwards all the time! The reverse is also true.

;)

Anonymous said...

Actually... I think whether ones penis is curved up or down also highly depends on how u place ur penis when u are young... I believe most guy's penis are faced upwards when they wear their underwear. Therefore their penis seems straight or curved upwards depending how long their penis is.
Mine is curved downwards cos I let it face down ever since I was young when i wear underwear... I think thats the reason... Can u help check it out whether this is the fact? How many guys out there are actually facing up or down while wearing underwear?

Yu-Kym said...

From what my friends with curved penises told me, it seems to depend on the placement when wearing underwear - but most guys will have straight penises regardless of placement.

Anonymous said...

Hey guys, its got nothing to do with how you place your dicks. Next, you are gonna tell me that if you hang weights at the end, you are gonna beat the black man's! Morons!

Straight or curve, long or short, you are just born with what u have, u dickheads!

curious cat

whitecastleknight@gmail.com said...

mine curves to the left tip would be showing ard 10pm.
Curse: i can only use my right hand to mastrubate: left hand is painful cos it goes against the curve. even when a girl does it to, its her left hand when she is facing me.
Blessing: When it protudes in the pussy it pushes against both side of the walls and the simulation felt by the girl will be as it was a very full filling dick.

whitecastleknight@gmail.com said...

my penis is curved to the left . tip would be showing 10pm

Curse: masturbate only right hand. left hand goes against the curve and will hurt. even when a girl will be masturbating me, she uses her left hand when facing me

Blessing: When inserting into the pussy the curve will push the inside of virgina outwards thus making it more full filling.

Anonymous said...

Mine is also curved down. One reason why women may like it is that once inside it tends to straighten ever so slightly, Mine is also curved down. One reason why women may like it is that once inside it tends to straighten ever so slightly, thereby flexing to an unnatural or straight shape. This increases the volume of the cock, much like when a man presses on the top base of his cock. No, I'm not making this up.
Find a man with a curve and give it a try. My wife is crazy about it.
"Serve the curve"

Anonymous said...

So what about those sexual positions that help a downward curving penis? My marriage is still filled with painful sex! I never want to do it!
I posted something in June too, please help! Give up the tips!

Anonymous said...

Anonymous in pain,

Poor girl....but I believe the onus must mainly lie upon your husband to take great care and gentleness when having sex with you. If it's at the expense of his own pleasure he has to accept it if he cares for you and wants the marriage to go on.

But I am of the view that with some creativity, lots of patience, perhaps also consultation with medical professionals, he can still derive sufficient pleasure in sex with you even if he has to accommodate your painful situation. It need not be a zero-sum game.

curious cat

Anonymous said...

mine curves to the left and my wife LOVES it...some of her friends have also shown an interest in, or acknoweledged that they also enjoy the curves. after all, how can a woman expect u to appreciate her curves without appreciating yours?

at the far ends of the scale, i did meet one woman who did not enjoy sex with my curve, but she did enjoy oral so we compromised. at the other end, i met one woman who had practically non-stop orgasms while i was inside of her. we actually had to take breaks so she could recover.

no man should worry too much about his size or shape. most women decide whether or not they're going to have sex with you before they ever see your penis. and, once a woman wants to have sex with you, it's with all of you, not just your penis. most women are much more emotional than physical in regards to sex. if it was just about a big, straight penis, they'd only rely on dildoes. make love with your mind, body and soul, not jus your penis. trust me, she likes it better this way.

TT

Anonymous said...

TT,

Wahhhhh...So wise! lol

curious cat

Anonymous said...

TT,

What do you think caused yours to curve as such?

Were you born with the curvature and it started to curve naturally as you grow up?

Or was your curvature as a result of your own "actions"...whatever this may mean lol?

Why do you think that girl didnt enjoy your curvature? And why did the other girl enjoyed it?

curious cat

Anonymous said...

My husbands curves up and he has used creams and it will not go straight. I had all our kid by C-section and did kegels for years. So I am tight. We did not have sex for 6 weeks due to a surgery I had and now...last night was horrible. I lubed up and toughed it out but I am so sore and very gun-shy. We tried various positions and are willing to try more in a day or so. Any suggestons?

Anonymous said...

I have had a downward curved penis since I was a teen. I have had a lot of ex's that have said it is better then a straight or upward bent penis. It has done what it is intended for. I have done some research and only 10 of 100,000 men had a downward curved penis. Most females that I have has sex with seem to want a downward curved penis. Only problems I have is positions, but you'll find one's that work just fine.

Anonymous said...

Mine slants to the left, no complaints from me or my partners but I have always wished to have a straight penis. I don't think it is caused by placing the penis up/down/left/right, or masturbating with the left/right hand. Rather I think it has to do with us having erections when we were young.

I remember when I was growing up, I always have an erection by the left way. Not by the right or restraining the penis in the downward position. On the other hand, it could genetic.

Anonymous said...

Hi all,

I have been marriage for a while but do not have sex due to Downword penis and I am looking for help and position to have intercourse

Anonymous said...

"due to Downward dick"

Ah, your dick not dicky lah. It should be upward and not downward.

Remember the Pirate movie, where down is up?

So simple, turn yourself upside down lah will solve the problem.

Anonymous said...

Anon with downward penis above, i think the best position for you is to enter from behind (doggy). To please a woman in sex is to reach her g-spot, which located about 2 inch at the front wall of vagina. And you might need to ask if your partner feels comfortable and excitement with the position that you apply. My bf has a left curved penis and we have no problem with sex...

prosperity4life2004@yahoo.com said...

Am sayin a vry big tank u2 all of u dat av contributed 2d ISSUE ON PENIS CURVATURE. mine is curved upward 2d left (10pm).B4 i was nt hapy & av no confidience. But now dat i av gotten enough info via internet by experienced males & females contributors, am now vry hapy & av cofidience. My conlussion: wahtever type of curve u av u are NORMAL all we need is ERECTION & POSITION. ((love, sex & r/ship are all abt truthful NAGOTIATION & ACCEPTANCE between 2 persons)). prosperity4life2004@yahoo.comAm sayin a vry big tank u2 all of u dat av contributed 2d ISSUE ON PENIS CURVATURE. mine is curved upward 2d left (10pm).B4 i was nt hapy & av no confidience. But now dat i av gotten enough info via internet by experienced males & females contributors, am now vry hapy & av cofidience. My conlussion: wahtever type of curve u av u are NORMAL all we need is ERECTION & POSITION. ((love, sex & r/ship are all abt truthful NAGOTIATION & ACCEPTANCE between 2 persons)). prosperity4life2004@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

I have a downward penis.now I'm 16 years old but when I grow up it will be more downward.pls tell me!! I am very worried!!

Anonymous said...

Don't worry.

When you do it, simply stand on your head.

That fixes the problem.

thomasj said...

I know this post is very old and might not have many visits but id like to share my own experience. Im 5'7,and 22 years old... I have a curve that kinda makes my soldier sit like an L... But not once have a gotten a complaint in bed(unless I hit the 4+hr mark). I never knew why my penis curved until I was 21. Even still, I've been told by almost every girl I've slept with that it didn't even matter to them because I knew how to use it... My advice to any guy who's having doubts in himself... DONT! Those are your jewels... Your not out here to prove to every girl that you can keep up with a straight penis... Your there to enjoy every last moment from beginning to end... Doggy,missionary, cowgirl, standing with her sitting in your arms(i dont know the proper name)sideways... Here's one for kicks.. Try having her roll so her vaginas almost to the ceiling while her neck is supported by a pillow... Remember guys... Its all starts with confidence.... If you dont have it, dont waste a females time. Hitmeupl8er@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

I had the same experience with my bf and I suggest that you first lubricate a lot because the insertion is difficult since it demands a larger vagina to enter. This is because his curvature ends up like having a double sized head to insert your vagina..I hope you understand what I mean.If your vagina is not flexible or opened enough, the hard erected pennis hurts you. There is nothing to worry though, just tell him to do more foreplay, more oral sex to you before vaginal sex.Once he opens you enough you wont pain in the insertion.Now during sex try sex on a table, putting even pillows under your back.Pillows should always be there, even in bed.Doggy style was my best.cowgirl position that he watch your back.Also position on 4 you on the bed,he standing on the floor, and many more..Seems you are newmarried, but how was your sex with him before marriage?

levi said...

i am gay. i have a penis that's curved down, and thought it was normal until i found out it was a rarity. This sucks!! and i also found that the only sex position i can do is the doggystyle. i dont like the doggy style, and knowing that it's the only one, doesn't help either! I'M GETTING THIS CORRECTED!! (i don't care about the surgery risks.

Anonymous said...

my penis is curve downwards. can i send u my penis pic? see if u think it is serious?

Anonymous said...

I show 2 TYPICAL PICTURES of 2 DISEASES related to bending of dick:

Check urself:

(I)Peyroine's disease:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Peyronie_disease.jpg

(usually observed in age 50-70 yrs)

(II)ANother disease:

http://img192.imageshack.us/img192/3470/16880487.jpg

(usually head of penis is bent downwards)

*All other bents r completely normal"-check out ur shape

Anonymous said...

Hi, after reading this its seems most of the curved pens are upwards or downwards. Mine is curved to the left, would this be a problem during sex?

Anonymous said...

Ok so there are different downward curves some seem to be fractured into an L shpe or deformed maybe due to injury most likely at young age and there are natural curves that are this shape ( the people out there with a natural curve can do any position believe me im very experienced and know wat i am talking about but the ones with the L shaped penis may need it realigned SORRY FOR THE BAD NEWS AND URWELCOME FOR THE GOOD "GO 2013!!!"

Anonymous said...

There are two well defined downward shapes one wich looks like an L and the other a banana the L SHAPE is a deformity n the banana is natural both can fuc but the natural banana shape can do any position

maghesen said...

hmmm hi am 5 inches long and my penis is slightly curved but i think its a blessing. it helps to rub the clitoris well!!!

Anonymous said...

I feel pretty lucky to have only a slight curved 8in.

jeremyshrout said...

I have a 9 inch penis that curves downward.me and my wife have been in all types of positions and found out with other woman we have sex with doggy style and putting there legs and hers above my elbows are best there has never been any pain for us and our girlfriends

Dannyfd33 said...

I'm a firefighter in Houston Texas and came across your blog. I have a 7 inch downward curved penis. It looks like Gonzo's nose from the muppets, lol. It's nice to know my type is in demand. FYI, if your ever in Houston Tx I would be more than happy to help you with your resarch regarding being with a man with a downward curved penis ;-)

Handsome Girth said...

Well....I Love the thick w/a really thick head upward curved.
If I like the guy this type of penis makes me cum so fast. Often times in multiples.
It stims the g-spot and when in close and rocking the entire V including the clit.
I have really only been with 1 uy that fit the bill to a tee.
However, while at my Brothers house the other day, I walked in (by accident) and he was just getting out of the shower.
I would say he had the most beautiful penis I have ever seen.
It was fully erect, standing way up and so thick and gorgeous.
If it had not been my Brother I would have fallen to my knees right then and their.
Still might;)