How many people have you slept with?

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The dreaded question: How many people have you slept with?

People dread it for different reasons. Some people dread it because they are embarrassed of being virgins. Some people dread it because they are whores (man-whores included). Others may be proud to declare their numbers.

Why do people even ask this question? What difference does it make to know the "answer"? You won't even know whether your partner is telling you the truth (unless you are Annabel Chong pretending to be a virgin). Really, nobody has to know the truth and nobody would know the truth if you didn't declare it.

Why do we bother to keep track of this number? Do you count how many times you've eaten caviar or foie gras, burgers or rice? I would guess not!

I had a religious up-bringing and in the Singapore culture promiscuity in women is frowned upon so I am influenced into thinking this number does matter. After all, how many Singaporean men would accept Annabel Chong as their wife without hesitation?

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

so give us an estimate of the number of people you've slept with, your favourite sex positon, etc

Anonymous said...

Provocative, yes. Brutally honest? hmm...

Anonymous said...

Like Jack Nicholson said...

"The Truth? You can't handle the truth".

Some things are better kept to the grave...

Hayabusa said...

Well to me, it doesn't matter at all. & if my gal have slept with guys before, better! for i juz get myself a teacher in sex, hehe :-p....

Yu-Kym said...

Curiosity might kill the cat. I think guys who are liberal won't mind. Sadly, there are still conservative guys out there who think that a non-virgin gal is worthless.

Anonymous said...

I don't mind if my girl has had slept with a few guys before; but i do mind if she had too many guys in the past. i only have 2 girls in my lifetime so far, ex and current. my ex is not a virgin and she taught me a lot about sex; and my current girl was a virgin and we really enjoying to make love with each other.

Yu-Kym said...

how many is too many? or more than yours is unacceptable?

Anonymous said...

i mean more than 5 is not acceptable unless the girl is very unlucky that she get dump everytime has a date with guy. Maybe i think in the conventional way, which might not be acceptable in current modern world.To me, as long as we, couple keep communicate, understand, care and tolerate with each and be responsible in the relationship, it won't be difficult to keep 1 partner for the lifetime.

Yu-Kym said...

"it won't be difficult to keep 1 partner for the lifetime." I'm sorry, I don't this applies anymore nowadays.

Anonymous said...

around 100 or so...usually one night stands...in my 20's

Yu-Kym said...

You're anonymous, so I don't think anyone takes your claim of sleeping with 100 or so seriously.

Anonymous said...

I m Anonymous before the one slept with 100 girls. I have been trying hard to stick with a gf instead of having a wild hunting. I underdtand why you lost fate on keeping a partner for the lifetime.

Yu-Kym said...

I suppose you don't intend to have a lifetime partner?

Anonymous said...

I m looking for a lifetime partner but very hard to get one especially a good one. I have spent most of my time on working in last few years until i have missed something. Will try to take some times to find a suitable lifetime partner in this new tiger year as advised by my boss.

Anonymous said...

Yup, no point counting, you'll ended up comparing who is better the man.

Yu-Kym said...

Good luck! Don't forget self-improvement :)

I do compare how men are in bed but I will always say that the guy I'm sleeping with right currently is the best! (That's what he would want to hear)

Anonymous said...

It's ironical. Men take pride in their scores. Yet they dont take pride in having a mate who also takes pride in her scores.

So like Yu-Kym sheepishly admit, you tell white lies. Just to land your desired mate. I admire Yu-Kym for her candidness.

curious cat

Anonymous said...

It used to hurt knowing that all my gf's were not virgins. But after thinking back all the partners I have had, no wonder there are no virgins out there. If you want one, well.... good luck!

JT

Anonymous said...

Shameless bunch...